Think back a minute to 2012… did you have sex as much as you wanted to? Was the sex you had of the toe-curling, scream-at-the-top-of-your-lungs variety? If you answered ‘no,’ to one or both of these questions, it’s time to make sure that 2013 is your sexiest year ever. Here’s how:
Put yourself in the mood first.
You’re not going to be able to seduce your partner if you’re not feeling particularly seductive yourself. Take a few extra minutes in the shower for a little grooming and moisturizing; you’ll want your lover to touch you everywhere. Get a new piece of lingerie for a weeknight surprise; you’ll look and feel so good, you’ll want to show it off.
Always be ready for sex.
Have 10 minutes before the kids get home? Get to it! Can’t find anything to watch on TV? Grab her vibrator remote instead. Don’t think that sex should only take place in bed right before you fall asleep. If you have to, leave notes in the pantry, garage or home office: “Have sex.” It may be all you need to remind yourself that the perfect time for sex is always right now
Change your routine.
Experts say that making small changes to your daily routine can be one of the best things you can do to spice things up. It’s easy: switch sides of the bed you sleep on and where you sit at the dinner table each night. Go to bed naked. Use a different cologne or body wash. Changing your routine in tiny little ways can benefit in a new perspective on your partner, and lead to more (and better) sex as you rediscover each other.
Compliment, Compliment, Compliment.
And don’t just say, “You look nice today, Hon.” Tell her she looks hot, that her ass looks amazing in the jeans she’s wearing. Rub your hands across his shoulders and tell him how sexy he looks as he’s doing work around the house. Take a compliment and then add seduction to it. Add heat, desire. Everyone likes to be told they look nice, but every once in awhile, there’s nothing like knowing that at that very moment, you are the sexiest person in the world to your lover. Those few little words can be a powerful aphrodisiac.
When you’re together, be together.
Put down the phones and tablets. Get off of your separate chairs and cuddle in front of the TV. Just because you’re in the same room doesn’t mean you’re spending time together. Play a game, watch a steamy movie, look in each other’s eyes, and above all, touch. Often, the smallest touches can lead to a passionate encounter, and you can’t touch if your hands are busy with your iPhone or your love is sitting across the room.
The summer get-away: it’s a time-honored American tradition. Getting away from home and work is an essential part of creating balance in our lives, so minds and bodies can be recharged and re-energized. Most couples agree, however, that one of the best part of escaping their routine happens in the bedroom.
People are buzzing about 
Q: We are very busy from family and work and have let our love life wither. Have decided to set aside date nights, but somehow things always seem to come up. How do we set up these intimate times and stick to them?
Masturbation isn’t just a fun little diversion to cure your boredom. Did you know that self-love has other benefits, other than a nice orgasm or three? Giving yourself pleasure can have very real positive effects on your overall health.
