Saudi Arabia’s religious police have arrested more than 140 people for celebrating Valentine’s Day.

The Organisation for Promoting Virtue and Discouraging Evil says officers have punished those caught so far, and that its campaign of arrests is continuing.

In a six-page statement, the religious police said they were saving women from “deceiving men”, who used the day to give the fake impression that they loved a woman while pretending to be a “harmless lamb”.

The religious authorities say Muslims who take part in Valentine’s Day are in fact weak, lacking imagination, and far removed from the “sublime and virtuous” objectives of their religion.

The organisation has also confiscated all red roses from shops.

Funny, we always thought that celebrating Valentine’s Day was a symbol of strength: more romance, a better, stronger relationship. We hope you were able to celebrate February 14th this year freely, openly, and above all… passionately!

Now, there’s nothing wrong with spending money on the one you love. But the most popular Valentine’s presents are fleeting: Flowers quickly lose their bloom, and candy is consumed.  An evening filled with romance, however, can have a lasting effect on your relationship. Make your lover squeal with delight on Valentine’s night, and he’ll likely smile the entire next day … and be ready for an encore performance whenever you request!

Try these twists on typical Valentine’s Day gifts to make your heart—and other body parts—throb:

Chocolate seduction—Get some Kama Sutra Lover’s Body Paint and swirl marshmallows, angel food cake and strawberries in the melty treat before feeding them to your lover. Tease him by dipping a banana in the chocolate-goodness and slo-o-owly sucking off the chocolate until there’s nothing left but the fruit. Then turn your attention to his banana.

Coming up roses—Leave a trail of scented silk rose petals for your sweetheart to follow. They may end up at the foot of your bed, with glowing candles all around, or beside a crackling fire. To really heat things up, add one flower with power: The silicone bendable rose by Evolved is a battery-operated toy with a rose bud at one end and a stem that bends. This queen of all roses will make you feel like you’ve landed in the Garden of Eden.

Bling with zing—The Pendant Egg Vibe Necklace packs two gifts in one: The oval pendant looks lovely around your neck—and even better between your legs. It doubles as a discreet multi-speed bullet vibe. And it even features a heart inscription perfect for Valentine’s Day. How about a ring for your man? A vibrating erection ring, that is. With a ring on his rod, your Valentine’s Day can last into the wee hours of the night.

What gifts of passion ensure you and your lover have a sensual Valentine’s Night?

• Deluxe Overnight Accommodations
• Complimentary Bottle of Champagne
• CD of Love Songs
• Gift from Ambiance
• Breakfast for Two
• 4 p.m. Checkout

For women, Valentine’s Day outfits can be a little more complicated, but the options are much greater as well. Think about separating your outfits for Valentine’s Day into two different categories, the date and the bedroom soirée. For your date, you are going to want to look sexy for your partner, but you still want to be comfortable. Remember, you want to turn your lover on but keep him guessing till the end of the night. Men are highly stimulated by visual cues, although a little bit of mystery is also highly arousing as well. Give them a little bit as the night goes on, from a nice outfit for Valentine’s Day then to the finale – sexy lingerie. By the time you transition from your nice evening wear to your hot negligee your partner will not be able to control their sexual aggression.

If you are really excited about increasing your partner’s sexual aggression – give him some options. Either the day before or just prior to when you go out on your date, give him some different lingerie options. Ask them what they think you will look most ravishing in. Then the whole night the only thing they will be able to think of is your naughty little lingerie outfit. Again, wet their appetite early and by the time you get to the fireworks they will explode with a cascade of sexual fulfillment.

An outfit for Valentine’s Day does not only apply to women. Men you should look your best as well. If you were going to look nice one day out of the year this would be the ideal time to do it. This doesn’t necessarily mean a tie and dress slacks, but that’s always a choice. Wear something that you think your partner will enjoy. It’s not necessarily about what you wear; it’s more about expressing to your partner that you care enough to do it for them.

At this point if you are still unsure, here are a few pointers:

1. A nice dress shirt goes along way. Wear a striped or patterned shirt and most importantly make sure it is neatly pressed. A wrinkled shirt will make any shirt look terrible.
2. Wear a little bit of color. You don’t have to wear red, although don’t wear plain neutral colors either. You will look stiff and boring. Don’t be afraid to mix it up. You want to stand out on your date.
3. Pay attention to your footwear, women notice. This includes socks as well – don’t wear athletic socks with anything but tennis shoes. Wear something that appropriately compliments your outfit for Valentine’s Day.
4. Pay attention to the details. This is what’s going to make your lover appreciate the effort. Details will convince your partner that you are worth having around.
5. Surprise her with some novelty underwear. Some sexy male lingerie under your outfit will blow her mind when she realizes what you’ve done just for her.
6. Also, don’t for forget hygiene. This could either be a big turn on or turn off later in the night. On Valentine’s Day you should look the best for your lover. Don’t be afraid to go the extra mile both in and out of the bedroom.

Finally, buying your partner a hot lingerie number is never a bad idea on Valentine’s Day. This could be a great time to experiment with a couple of different outfits for Valentine’s Day. Give her a couple different options for the special night and then you’ll still get to enjoy the other pieces later. Try going the extra mile on Valentine’s Day and who knows it might result in the most mind-blowing sex of your life.

Tips for Women

Women, when you buy lingerie for yourself don’t just consider what your partner will think. Lingerie for the most part is more about you then them. If you wear something sexy then sexy is all you will feel. Feeling sexy is a confidence multiplier. It not only enhances your confidence in the bedroom but in all aspects of your life. So regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not, sexy lingerie is a must. Who knows, maybe wearing that sexy Valentine’s Day lingerie you bought to the party might just give you the confidence you need to meet that special somebody. Or, your partner might just go mad with an uncontrollable lust for your womanhood. Win, win.

Also, every woman has an erotic feminine side that needs to be expressed and nurtured. Think about the sight, the touch, and the scent of a sexy lingerie piece. It should remind you that you are a sensual being with profuse amounts of erotic potential. If a sexy Valentine’s Day lingerie outfit could help you express that sense to your lover; why would you deny yourself or them that satisfaction? Regardless of whether it’s for your partner or you, remember the sexual empowerment that silk and lace can provide to you in any situation.

Finally, think to yourself “it’s always best to be prepared.” Don’t just wear lingerie for Valentine’s Day, wear it before, on and after the special day. Surprise your partner one night when they slowly start to take off your clothes and they find your hot body tightly wrapped in a lacy negligee – a sexmas present. Peeling back sexy layers of sensual beauty will only make them more aroused to finally reach their ultimate prize. Not only does this work for lovers and couples, but also you just never know when you might have that unexpected romp between the sheets. You have nothing to lose…except that little racy piece of lingerie at the end of the night.

Tips for Men

For men buying lingerie for Valentine’s Day it can be a little overwhelming and frightening, especially if it is your first time. Like all first times though, it doesn’t hurt if you to do a little bit of research beforehand. In fact research might be the biggest part of the entire process. Get her numbers…and by numbers know what size she wears. There is nothing more awkward than getting what you think will be your key to sexual nirvana only to find that the key does not fit. Hint – if you are flying blind always err on the side of caution (go smaller). This way you leave yourself an exit strategy. “Baby, all I thought about was how sexy you would look in it and I forgot to look at the size. I would love to go with you to return it and find just the right size.” Either way, it fits or you can help her go pick out more lingerie and all your bases are covered.

Okay – so we have kept you from shooting yourself in the foot but you still need her sizes. The best way to accomplish this is to check her sizes the next time you are together. There are a couple of ways to do this. First, the next time you two are getting intimate slowly take off her bra and panties. Use your teeth. Its more erotic and playful and it will also allow you to sneak a peek at her sizes. If that is a little too James Bond for you consider the more stealthy approach. Wait till she is out of the room and then find her sizes. Just be sure not to get caught. It will either ruin the surprise or you might have some awkward explaining to do.

Once you know her sizes then you can really start to decide on what Valentine’s Day lingerie she will look best in. If you don’t feel comfortable looking for lingerie in a store look for lingerie online. When you are looking for lingerie there are a variety of different styles. There are camisoles, chemises, baby dolls, teddies, bustiers, corsets, garter belts, thongs, bras, and boy shorts. Find what you like, then think about what she might like. Is she playful, is she flirtatious, is she racy or does she just want to be comfortable. Consider how each different piece might make her feel, because ultimately you just want her to feel like a sexy bombshell. The better she feels the hotter and more passionate your sex will be. If all else fails ask for help because women always know best.

Boring stuff, however, this doesn’t have to be the case. Getting out of those traditional Valentine’s Day customs is as simple as committing to opening up a little bit and letting your kinky and wild side express itself. This might seem a little difficult at first, but if you do; your partner will truly appreciate all your efforts. Consider the following sexy Valentine’s Day ideas to reinvigorate your Valentine’s experience and possibly even your sex life.

• Foreplay! Foreplay! Foreplay!– Don’t be afraid to give foreplay more of chance. When was the last time you engaged in foreplay and it did not ultimately culminate in penetration? If you are having trouble answering this question then this might be the perfect sexy Valentine’s Day idea for surprising your partner. Foreplay is all about committing to satisfying all of your partner’s needs, wants and desires. It is a very intimate way to show them how much you care. Plus it can be a very erotic and kinky experience if you let it.
  

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  Often times the anticipation is hotter than the actual climax. Appreciate the anticipation and use it to drive your partner crazy. Kiss, caress, lick, tease and bite all night long. Use toys – try a vibrator or even massage oils. Make your partner writhe in pleasure as they try to guess what you are going to do next. Even though this might take a little more effort on your part, what better night can you make a sacrifice to fulfill your partner’s sexual desires?

• Take It Out of the Bedroom– Yes, this sexy Valentine’s Day idea does include having hot passionate sex with your partner. Wow, how original. I would agree with you and so would your partner because that is exactly what they will expect on Valentine’s Day. That’s perfect because you are going to do the exact opposite – you are going to sex your partner up in a new, different and exotic location.
  

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  Try having sex somewhere different. If you are a little more conservative try a different location in your home such as the stairs, your office desk or even in the hallway when you return from dinner. Be bold, be different, and get creative. For those who are a little kinkier consider the rush of public sex. Yes, the idea is a little taboo but the fear of getting caught will only heighten the sexual encounter. Let your imagination run wild and just live in the moment.

• Use a Blindfold– Again, this sexy Valentine’s Day idea might not be the most original, but the kinkiness is all in the details. Blindfolding your partner does a couple of things. One, it puts them in a vulnerable position where they are forced to trust you. This is a great way to make any experience more personal and intimate. Second, their other senses are heightened because they are forced to use them. It makes their sense of touch, taste, smell and sound more inclined to enjoy the experience.
  

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  Use these heightened senses to your advantage. Take a feather and gently spell dirty words all over their body as you soothingly stroke their inner thigh. Then tease them with fresh strawberries covered in rich dark chocolate as you blow lightly on their nipples. Once they are begging for more move slowly downwards using a massager to give them the most unimaginable oral sex. The blindfold is only as enjoyable as you make it.

• Tie Your Partner Up– Being tied up and submitting to you partner’s sexual desires is something everybody should try at least once. This doesn’t have to be extremely kinky or mean that you like submission and domination. Ultimately, it is a reflection of how much you trust your partner and that you are willing to submit to their carnal sexual desires. However, there is a lot of room for creativity to make the experience as kinky as you would like.
  

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  The key to tying you partner up is making sure they are comfortable. Get your hands on some mischievous bondage tools to take the experience to a whole new level. You can also just use her scarf or his ties or even sexy handcuffs if you want. Use your items to tie your partner’s hands to the bedposts or even together. Then savagely run your hands all through your partner’s hair as they feel the full weight of your body as your sexual hormones combine in an erotic sexual crescendo.

• Sensual Massage – Sex is great. But women don’t just enjoy the act; they enjoy everything else that leads up to the lovemaking. They want to feel as if they are being taken care of and sharing an intimate experience. A sensual massage is a great way to combine the two and accomplish both.
  

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  Let her know how much you care about her as you slowly massage and explore every part of her body. Take your time rubbing in the massage oils as you compliment her seductive beauty. Then once she is comfortable, slowly transition into a more erotic massage using a vibrator. Ask her what feels good and what she likes. If you can both participate in her pleasure it will result in a more romantic and productive sexual experience. Take your time, go slow and let her know how much she means to you.

• Sensual and Sexy Bath – Pampering her with a romantic and sensual bath is one Valentine’s Day gift for her that she will hopefully never forget. Not to mention, it will be an experience she will most likely want to share with all of her girlfriends – if done correctly. Even though sex will most likely follow this erotic indulgence don’t forget that this is about her. Making her feel relaxed and sexy is the ultimate goal.
  

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  While men aren’t big on atmosphere – women do care. Remember this because it is very important. Make sure you create the proper environment by using lots of candles, bubbles and champagne. Rose petals are also a nice touch. Let her get in and enjoy herself as you slowly caress her hair and shoulders. Then once she is fully relaxed introduce a vibrating sponge for a more intimate massage. By this time she should be so hot and wet that she should drag you into the bath with her. Let this sensual bathing experience be the one time she comes out dirtier than when she went in.

• Love Time Warp – Unfortunately Valentine’s Day only comes around once a year. But that shouldn’t stop you from enjoying nights of passion charged sex all year. Provide Valentine’s Day gifts to her year round. Tell her that one-day dedicated to romance just isn’t enough. You want to celebrate Valentine’s Day all throughout the year, but she won’t know until just the right moment. Make it a surprise, every few weeks, every couple of weeks or whenever. The important thing is to give her these gifts when they are the least expected.
  

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  Something big or something small, again, mix it up. A vibrator one time or some bondage tools the other, it doesn’t matter. The gift is important but not as important as what it represents. Whenever you give her these gifts make it a big deal just like you would on Valentine’s Day. That way she won’t just feel like you care one day out of the year. She’ll know that Valentine’s Day is in February, but the rest of the year will be a mystery.

• Sexy Toy Basket – Gift baskets are often quite cliché, but they are cliché for a reason. If you are looking for Valentine’s Day ideas for her that are simple then you are out of luck. Gift baskets are cliché because they lack individuality and they are impersonal. But if you assemble one yourself with her in mind then they become quite the opposite – very personal and thoughtful. The great thing about putting together a sex toy basket for her is that you get to pick the items, so choose ones you can enjoy as well.
  

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  When assembling this erotic bundle of pleasure think about variety. Choose items from every sex toy category. Lingerie, pleasure rings, vibrators, kama sutra books, lubricants, and massage oils. By choosing from a diverse selection of items it will always keep your lovemaking hot and steamy. If you have been looking for a great way to spice up the bedroom or just add to your collection think sex toy basket. She will not only love it but you will too.